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Seeing Red Head's avatar

This is beautifully written, and timely as I head off to share a weekly extended lunch with an old high school friend I have recently reconnected with. We have discovered that place of mutual sharing and illumination, encouraging courage and dignity no matter where the conversation goes. It has become one of the highlights of our week. I never know where we’ll end up, but always feel it will be in a safe and genuine space.

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Kyle McClendon's avatar

Man! This is so, so good. Hadn’t really thought about putting this experience into words but you nailed it with grace and compassion. I appreciate this as a fellow conversation stretcher. Thank you for sharing

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Michael Gallipeau's avatar

This is really well written. I read David Brook’s book just a couple months ago and found it very valuable. I’ve never really been interested in shallow talk but I’m still trying to grow in being able to listen deeply.

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Carole's avatar

Your writing captures the awe, admiration and gratitude I feel for a reconnection with an old friend. Aging may be a challenge, but rediscovering a beautiful friendship that has stood the test of time and evolved into something that nourishes the soul has been such an unexpected joy.

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Nate Owens's avatar

Love this Meiko! I appreciate the care in your words

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Durgan Maxey's avatar

amen

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Adam Lawley's avatar

Surface talk is such a default in today's society. Am I am the chief perpetuator! Great read Meiko, and for someone who has known you for years. You have always been an incredible LISTENER.

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Austin Gohn's avatar

That David Brooks book was so helpful for me last year. Thanks for sharing this, Meiko. A good word on listening.

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